Drew Dixon, former Vice President of A&R Records, producer, writer, and Silence Breaker shared her experience on coming forward about her assault.
” I didn’t want “rape victim” to be part of the story of my life. I wanted to be a star record executive, an incredible music producer, a winner. I thought rape victims were losers, and I didn’t want to be a loser.”
“So I thought that if I didn’t say it out loud, it wouldn’t be real. So after a few months, I stopped talking about it. I wrote it out of my life story and thought it would go away, but the pain was still real. The way it broke something in me was still real. How small and unworthy I felt in the music industry for the rest of my career was very real because of it.”
“But it turns out that I wasn’t controlling it by not saying it. I wasn’t controlling anything. It was controlling me every day that I kept the secret, so I finally said it out loud. I unlocked the prison it put me in. And now, I am free.”
Follow Drew Dixon on Twitter: @deardrewdixon.
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